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"I feel more confident again!" John G.
"It works...I have control!" Robert V.
"My partner was so surprised!" Andy C.
Mind Games
WILL NOT WORK!
Silly mind games like thinking of something else, thinking about baseball stats, counting backwards or doing multiplication tables in your mind do not work! First off, you're having sex...why would you ever want to be thinking of something else? Second, the ejaculation reflex is not stopped by these mind games... only strong perineal muscles will inhibit the ejaculation reflex.
Lotions, Potions, Creams and Gels
WILL NOT WORK!
Lotions, potions, creams and gels that claim to numb your penis do not work. First off, the numbing agent takes away the pleasurable sensations for both you and your partner. Second, the ejaculation reflex is not stopped by these products... only strong perineal muscles will inhibit the ejaculation reflex.
The stop or pause-squeeze technique
WILL NOT WORK!
That technique where you just pull out and stop when you feel the urge to ejaculate, or the other technique where you pull out before ejaculating and your partner squeezes the tip if your penis...do not work! First off, you're having sex... and you stop??? What a mood breaker! Second, the ejaculation reflex is not stopped by these techniques... only strong perineal muscles will inhibit the ejaculation reflex.
Anti-depressant medication (SSRI)
CAN WORK BUT READ THE WARNING BELOW
A class of anti-depressant medication known as SSRI's have a known side-effect in that they delay and sometimes suppress orgasm. If you suffer from anxiety or depression, AND, you've been prescribed SSRI's, definitely continue to use them. However, if you do not suffer from anxiety or depression, DO NOT take SSRI's simply to delay your ejaculation. These medications alter the levels of serotonin in the brain, so if you don't suffer from mental illness, you don't want to do this.
those so-called natural supplements
WILL NOT WORK!
The ejaculation reflex is controlled and inhibited by strong pelvic and perineal muscles. Those 'natural' supplements simply do not work. Further, many times a year the FDA and Health Canada put out Advisory Warnings against these supplements because they discover that they are often laced with sub-quality medications...not so 'natural' after all!
other silly 'tricks'
WILL NOT WORK!
We've read about other silly suggestions, like wearing 3 condoms or masturbating immediately before sex...really??? These are so silly that we have nothing to add except to say... they will not work!
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